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What Are You Really Holding On To?

September 25, 2026•6 min read

The Deeper Meaning of Sukkot in an Uncertain World

Most of us spend our lives trying to feel secure. We make plans, build careers, save money, create routines, and do everything we can to protect our families, our health, our relationships, and our future. There is nothing wrong with any of this. The problem begins when we start believing that the things we have built are the true source of our security.

Then life changes. A relationship shifts. A financial concern appears. We receive an unexpected phone call. A door we were counting on suddenly closes. In one moment, the life that felt so stable can begin to feel uncertain.

This is why the message of Sukkot is so relevant today.

During Sukkot, we leave the comfort of a permanent structure and enter a temporary dwelling called a sukkah. Its walls may move with the wind. Its roof is intentionally incomplete, allowing us to look through the branches and see the sky. Physically, it may seem to offer less security than the homes we have built. Yet according to the wisdom of Kabbalah, the sukkah connects us to a much greater source of protection.

The sukkah asks us a powerful question: What if the things you believe are holding you up are not actually what is holding you up?

The Zohar calls the sukkah the “shade of certainty.” This does not mean pretending that problems do not exist. It does not mean ignoring fear, avoiding responsibility, or believing that everything will happen exactly as we want. Certainty means remembering that even when we cannot see the entire picture, there is still purpose, still Light, and still a way forward.

Life does not always explain itself immediately. Sometimes a door closes before we understand where we are being redirected. Sometimes something we thought we needed is removed before we can recognize what is meant to replace it. Sometimes we are asked to take the next step without being shown the entire road.

Certainty is the ability to say, “I may not understand this moment, but I will not allow this moment to disconnect me from hope, love, or the person I am capable of becoming.”

That is the consciousness Sukkot gives us the opportunity to develop.

We often think protection means that nothing difficult will happen. Spiritual protection works differently. It does not always prevent the storm. Sometimes it gives us the strength, wisdom, and clarity to move through the storm without losing ourselves.

Protection may appear as the pause that keeps us from sending an angry message. It may be the inner voice that tells us not to give up. It may be the friend who calls at exactly the right moment. It may be the wisdom to recognize that a rejection is not necessarily the end of the road, but a redirection toward something we cannot yet see.

The energy of Sukkot helps us build an inner shelter that fear cannot easily enter. Our circumstances may still change, but we do not have to collapse every time they do.

The Zohar also teaches that Sukkot is a time of extraordinary joy. This is not the temporary happiness we experience when everything is going our way. The joy of Sukkot is deeper. It is the decision to recognize what remains good, even while something else is uncertain.

Many of us postpone joy. We tell ourselves we will feel peaceful when the problem is solved, happy when the relationship improves, grateful when the money arrives, or confident when we finally know what is going to happen. We place our happiness somewhere in the future and then wonder why it always feels just beyond our reach.

Sukkot invites us to stop waiting.

What if joy is not only the result of receiving a blessing? What if joy is part of how we create the vessel to receive one?

Joy opens us while fear contracts us. Joy helps us recognize possibilities that anxiety hides from us. It allows us to connect more deeply, notice opportunities, and remember that one difficult chapter is not the entire story.

Choosing joy does not mean denying pain. It means refusing to let pain become the only truth we can see.

Sukkot also carries the energy of mercy, kindness, and sharing. This is especially important today because it is easy to become consumed by our own pressure. We are constantly thinking about our responsibilities, problems, deadlines, and everything we still need to fix.

Yet one of the fastest ways to move out of fear is to become a source of Light for someone else.

Send the message you have been putting off. Call the person who may be feeling alone. Listen without trying to fix everything. Forgive one small offense. Offer patience in a moment when you would normally react. Give someone encouragement before they have to ask for it.

Kindness does not need to be dramatic to be powerful. One small act of sharing can interrupt someone’s darkness, including our own.

The protection available during Sukkot is not meant to be kept only for ourselves. We strengthen it by becoming a source of safety, dignity, compassion, and Light for others.

Not everyone reading this will have the opportunity to sit inside a physical sukkah, but everyone can connect with its consciousness. We can each create an inner sukkah, a place within ourselves where fear is no longer in charge.

We enter that inner sukkah when we stop spiraling and take a breath. We enter it when we release the need to know exactly how everything will work out. We enter it when we choose a thoughtful response instead of an impulsive reaction. We enter it when we remember that our job, bank account, relationship status, mistakes, and current circumstances do not define who we are.

During these seven days, ask yourself what you may be trying too hard to control. Notice where fear has become louder than your certainty. Look for the blessings you may have overlooked because you were focused on what was missing. Then consider how you can become a source of kindness or protection for someone else.

Sukkot reminds us that the strongest shelter is not always the one with the thickest walls. Sometimes it is the one that helps us look beyond the walls and see the sky.

The sukkah may be temporary, but the consciousness we build within it can stay with us long after the holiday ends.

May we use this powerful time to release fear, awaken joy, extend greater kindness, and develop a certainty that does not depend on everything going according to plan.

Because when the world around us feels uncertain, the greatest protection we can receive is the ability to remain connected to the Light within us.

All The Best
Rabbi Abe
The Soul Coach

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